ced into a third lifestyle, a life of reality. All her teenage pop culture desires have turned into non-existence. Connie is forced to grow up in an instant. Arnold Friend leaves her with a life she cannot begin to understand. She rushed to grow up and now she is.“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” shows how life can be destroyed by not living it as a person should. Connie wanted lots of attention. She never experienced reality, constantly living in a fantasy world. She based her life on looks, music, pop culture and the popular boys. Arnold Friend comes into Connie’s life and takes over. He forces her into unwanted situations, to think about new issues, when she realizes she was happy with the way everything was. Connie’s encounter with Arnold Friend changes everything, bringing her narcissistic ways to an end, and her innocence is lost. Bibliography1. Kirzner, Laurie G.; Mandell, Stephen R. Literature: Reading, Reacting, Writing. Third Edition. Harcourt Brace Publishers, Orlando. 1997Lost InnocenceDoes Connie learn her lesson in the end? In the story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates, fifteen-year-old Connie is torn between two different lifestyles. The first is her home life that consists of a materialistic mother, an unemotional father and a plain sister, June. The second life is with her friends and the rebellious summer life that they live. Connie loves herself and her looks, but her narcissistic ways come to a quick end when she encounters a day with Arnold Friend, leaving Connie with a loss of innocence in an unknown world.Connie is the typical fifteen-year-old teenybopper. She spends endless moments staring at her reflection in the mirror and comparing her looks to others to make sure she is prettier than the rest because beauty is everything Connie knows. Connie lives in a fantasy world; she bases her identity on the surround...
