s is that because of the judgment placed on how men live their lives and the expectations on them, even though many may considered men to be privileged in American, the truth is while they might be given some opportunities that woman arent as quickly granted, they pay a high price to get those opportunities and in some cases those so call privileges are actually a punishment. That being said though, he ends the piece by saying that as much a burden that men have placed on them, a womans life is no better. So perhaps, instead of pointing fingers at each other and wishing that we were more like them or they were more like us, we should be allowed to simply be ourselves and act the way we feel we want to, regardless of what society might expect of us....