you want to do is go crazy. Anger quickly turns into depression; your mind starts to think of everything and anything. The past, future, present, your mind feels like its speeding in your car at a thousand mile an hour. Your ability to trust is shattered, you feel that you have been used and that you will never trust again. You wish that there were something you could do to change the past. You may blame yourself and think that, only if I had not said this, or did I not show I cared enough. You start to ask why, why this, why that, why. These are just a few of the emotional battles that a person will go through, and only with time will these battle wounds heal but the scares remain forever.When a relationship comes to a crashing end due to cheating not only does it affect the ex-couple but it also affects family and friends as well. Being a listener and a giver of advice are usually the key roles friends and families quickly learn how to play. Playing these roles are not easy and unfortunately with no choice by them, they have now been dragged into unwanted drama. Friends are lost, enemies are gained, becoming the middleman is a typical roll, and life can drastically change. When I was cheated on by my ex-girlfriend, my friends were forced to be in the middle. I would always make my friends find out information for me. I wanted to know anything I could about who, why, when, and how many times my ex cheated on me. Now as I write this paper I realize what an unfair positions I was putting my friends in.Cheating can cause so many problems, life turns into a soap opera its like each day there is a new drama to deal with, it feel like the continuation daily pain will never end. Cheaters hopefully learn from their mistakes and gain the self-control not to stray or at least end their pervious relationship before entering a new relationship. The cheated on needs to take time, and have the support from others to help get through this terrib...
