er hand, when a nice guy is attentive to a woman and pays her compliments on a regular basis, she believes that he is just telling her what she wants to hear. She thinks that his words are just pick-up lines to make him seem suave, instead of words that tell her how he feels and thinks about her. This thought process is enhanced when Mr. Right never says anything negative to her or about her.Another unfortunate characteristic of human beings is that they always want what they cannot have. The possibility of obtaining something or someone that they think they cannot have is a slight adrenaline rush. The concept of being accepted by a person who doesn’t seem interested in them brings curiosity to its peak. Thoughts like “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not good enough?” make people strive for acceptance.Part of human nature is to seek out the answers to all of our unanswered questions. In this search for the answers to our questions, more often then not, even more questions arise. This is a vicious circle that can totally consume a woman. Without realizing it, all the time spent looking for the answers to questions like, “Why am I not good enough?” and “Why doesn’t he like me?” are spent devoted to the man who made her question herself in the first place.The fact that a woman is self-conscious and emotional leads her to a life of negativity and rejection. When a woman with age and maturity decides that she deserves better and has enough confidence in herself, only then does she choose a decent, loving, and caring man to spend her time and her life with. It is a shame that this self-destructive path is followed every day by millions, but it seems that it is an inevitable path that either makes a woman stronger and more knowledgeable or miserable and in an unhealthy relationship. If only it were human nature for a woman to want to be with a man who equally wan...
