I remember inhigh school when there was a rumor going around that a teacher was gay, he was a maleteacher. It just so happened that this was currently my teacher. After hearing that rumor,if it was a rumor or the truth, I was never able to talk to that teacher again.Furthermore I believe that the little boys doing girl stuff and the little girls doingboy stuff will eventually grow out of doing so. It’s just a phase. Maybe at that point inthe child’s life they are not interested with what their sex does and doesn’t care for it. Icame to this conclusion because I have seen it happen. Remember the boy and girl Idiscussed earlier? Well they turned out all right, because I still know both of them andthey are pretty close friends of mine. The girl just grew out of the jeans and a shirts. Assoon as she got to high school she stopped hanging around with us boys, and nobodyminded it. But she was still very athletic and was on the softball and basketball teams inhigh school. And the boy also just grew out of his phase. He was even on my footballteam in high school, he was pretty athletic in all sports. Last I heard from him was that hewas going to be a doctor. In the end something good did come out of him doing “girlstuff”. So in the end I think it’s up to the child when she or he wants to move out of thephase they are going through. And I don’t believe that parents should push their child toact like their own sex. I know that’s more easier to say than do, and plus I am not aparent yet. If the child doesn’t change because they don’t want to, well than we as asociety should try to help that child feel accepted and not rejected. Because they mostlikely already feel rejected cause they are different. ...
