s that involve telling secrets (communication). This early construction of female communication skills allowed women more of the ability to construct complex and sophisticated language sequences. Men, on the other hand were communicatively delayed in society because their male role models told them "not to cry, feel, or act like a baby, a sissy or a girl". This stunted their feelings and communicative emotions and put a cap on their communication skills. This created a challenge for them to communicate or argue their concerns later in life. Men advanced more mechanically using skills of imagery, physically and also had pressures on them to succeed as the "man of the house". In all of the secret games that women were playing as children we figured out that men tend to value themselves by something outside themselves. Men tend to be dependent on outside elements that promote, stroke or validate their egos. When it comes to argumentation women tend to use this as an advantage to get the conclusion that is desired. Men will tend to argue an issue directly to the point and state the facts to get a desired conclusion, while women may tend to use other resources, i.e. sexuality, or creatively color an argument in hopes of manipulating a man by patronizing his ego. ...