y andphysically for the duration of theirmarriage; otherwise, there is no point inbeing married. Also, some people marrysomeone just for some physical commoditythat cannot be the basis for a marriage.Examples of this happen all the time, likewhen a woman marries a man for his moneyor vice versa, and when people are marriedjust because the sex is great. Things suchas these do not produce a lasting marriage,and the main reason that people continue todo this is that they do not understand whateffect it is going to have. Americans areblind to the fact that they need to have astable relationship in order to have astable marriage.From all of these things stated so far, ahypothesis can be formed. My hypothesisasseverates that the problem is that mostmarriages end in divorce, divorce causesserious detriment to the divorcees andtheir children, and the cause of divorce isthat people are negligent to what isnecessary to maintain a lasting marriage.According to me there are two simplesolutions to the problem of overwhelmingdivorce. The first one is a similar version ofwhat Sir Thomas More uses in his bookUtopia. In Utopia More states that beforea couple is married, each person is shownnaked to the other so that if there issomething on one person's body that theother cannot live with then the marriagecan be nullified. In my theory I believe thatbefore the marriage actually takes place,each person should bare their souls to theother. Sometime before the marriage, eachperson should take the other into a privateroom where only they will be able to hear,and then they should tell each other everysingle aspect of their lives. This includespersonality, characteristics, favoritefoods, goals in life, how many kids theywant to have, income, future aspirations,number of previous relationships, historyof mental illness, family history, etc. Eachperson should not only tell the othereverything about themselves, buteverything that they like and dislike abouttheir ...
