e similar person. But after reading some books on psychology, after dealing with her parents and some really close friends she understood that what she liked in her ex: character, behavior, appearance – all that was the reason of their parting. Then, one day she went to a party and was introduced to one young man there. He was absolutely distinct to what she thought she was attracted to. But… some information, some advice – and now they are going to get married. There is another story of one of my mother’s friends. Inna got married at 18. That was her ‘first serious love’ she thought. She gave birth to a child at 19. And at 20 she divorced. Now she is 35. Since that time she had a lot of problems with the opposite sex. She changed partners, her life style, and cities. The only thing she did not and is not going to involve in her full of problem life is her daughter. So… she suffered a lot from men. And during those sufferings she learned how to behave, what to say, and what to do in this or that situation. She knows now how to acquaint easily and how to break up in the same way. She learnt how to use men for her and her daughter. It may sound a little bit cruel but she is not that way, she just finds the compromise. And her story shows us another conclusion. The more experience you had in the past the better you do in the future.So the most helpful communications in the relationships with the opposite sex are based on three elephants. First, the information that comes from Mass Media and the ambient world will help you to decide whether to adopt or reject the innovation in your private life. Second is your own life experience that helps us to decide what we should do if we face the problems during an innovation decision-making process. And third is our inner world, which includes our age, character, lifestyle, and of course feelings without which people are not able to live even one working day...
