Data Bases • Custom Term Papers • Free Term Papers • Free Research Papers • Free Essays • Free Book Reports • Plagiarism? Links • Top 100 Term Paper Sites • Top 25 Essay Sites • Top 50 Essay Sites • Search 97,000 Papers @ DirectEssays.com • Search 101,000 Papers @ ExampleEssays.com • Search 90,000 Papers @ MegaEssays.com Free Essays • Term Paper Sites • Chuck III's Free Essays • Free College Essays • TermPaperSites.com • My Term Papers • Get Free Essays • Essay World • Planet Papers	Search Lots of Essays Back to Subjects - Miscellaneous The opposite sex The opposite sex What could be more confusing than the male speices? Absolutely nothing! Guys have no idea just how much they reflect on a young girl’s or older woman’s life. Guys make women think, not to mention try to figure out what exactly goes through their heads. Yet, they remain to have so much involvement in a female’s life. Most guys don’t understand how much they confuse women, whether it be playing mind games, never doing anything they say they will, or by being scared to death of commitment. Every typical teenage girl will have a night in her life where she sits in her room crying, listening to depressing music, and wondering why me? Why do guys have to be so confusing and frustrating by playing their mind games and their never able to make up their minds? The average male always begins with one of his favorite type of mind game: to act extremely sweet to the unexpecting girl one on one, but once the they get around the “boys” outcomes a new personality. The poor girl’s new love interest will act tough in front of his friends to let them know he is not whipped. For example: the guy will always give the girl back to back complinents, but around the boys, all he gives her is critisim. Next, when his friends begin to realize that he is really into this girl, he’ll play it off as if she doesn’t even exist. Like, walking right passed her in the hall without saying hi and by suddenly forgetting her name and number. Yet, guys think this will get a girl’s attention and make her want him even more? Not likely, she will probably go on her own separate way. But this is when the true game sets in, as soon as she starts pulling away from him and his devilish schemes, he wants her even more. This is why guys have such a hard time with girls; guys confuse girls too much by playing mind games. “I’ll call you tonight.” he promises. Yet, the phone doesn’t ring all night with his voice on the other end. All girl’s have a night like this, where the guy says he’ll call, but instead it takes a few days to get the phone call. Boys have a concept about them that will never allow them to do anything they say they will. An example being: they say they are going to take the girl out to a movie, but as soon as his friends want to do something he will break plans with her no matter how long they have had them. They also can never completely open up and speak honestly, even though they say they will and really want to start trying. The biggest lie of all is when guys continue to say they don’t like arguing with the girl even though that just turns into the largest argument of all. Guys really need to start figuring out if they say they want and are going to do something then JUST DO IT! One of girl’s biggest pet peeves is how they are scared of commitment or even the word for that matter. The most confusing part of this is how he will go for the girl for an amount of time and will really want to be with her, yet once the true commitment comes and it is not all fun and games anymore, the fear sets in. They always come up with the lamest excuses to get out of almost anything but mostly a relationship. Such as “I think we would be better off just being friends.” Once the excuses no longer make any sense, guys try to explain better reasoning behind the excuses by making it a point that he wants to be with her, but he is no good for her; it would be selfish of him to keep her and it would be thing wrong thing to do. If the speeches and guilt trips on themselves no longer work he has no problem by just walking away. Walking away from the relationship, her love, and pretty much her friendship. The guy can walk away with such ease and as if he has no regrets; that is what hurts the most and why girls are always scared to get close to a guy and to be in a relationship with him. The male speices never will have any idea how much they really do confuse girl’s by playing mind games, never doing what they say they will, and by being scared of commitment. A few words of advice: play it straight with girls because once the mind games start, chances are they will always loss the girl; never break plans for the boys, call when expected to, don’t make little things into a fight; and know when to go after a girl. The most important tip of all on how to avoid causing a girl to be confused is try to be Bibliography: Word Count: 837
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