ther. In most circumstances, families who talk about their problems with each other have a greater chance in solving their disputes than families who keep silent. This is because family talks would make both parents and children aware of the wrong things they have done. As a result, the mistake that they committed would serve as a lesson for the both of them. Also, talking would give both parties a chance to explain their side. Knowing the perspective of each other would give them a clearer view of the situation because of this, misunderstandings and misinterpretations would be avoided. Talking would also make them aware of their defectiveness as parents or as children. If both parties were aware of their defectiveness, fulfilling their roles and obligations as better and effective parents or children would be easier. Another positive effect of talking would be the development of trust. Children are more likely to become trustworthy because parents believe that their children wouldnt want to tell them delinquencies thus, children avoid involving themselves in doing improper things. A personal example of this would be my family. My parents and I treat each other like friends. We talk about our activities everyday and because of this, I no longer do thoughtless and selfish things. If I know that I would lie about certain actions, I would try to avoid engaging myself in such acts. As a result, my parents trust me even more. Talking in addition, has a partner - listening. Listening is also another important factor in bridging communication gap as mentioned above. A good listener suggests that he is a good consoler. Children would more likely open up to their parents if they know that their parents would help ease their problems. Also, when parents are good listeners, children feel that they could tell them anything. The usual problem in many situations is that both parties talk too much and no one ever listens. An effective communication i...
