to go along well in the parenting department. Baier seems to make a point with obligation. That it’s a person's obligation to relies weather or not they can instill the love and trust  into a person they are bringing into the harsh world. This should be decided long before giving birth to a person otherwise they shouldn't give birth.  But these things love and trust make a person vulnerable (Baier emphasizes ).  It must be learned on when to and when not to trust. Baier says this can replace "… laws with a security increasing sacrifice of security, distrust promoters of a climate of distrust."  This point sound unimaginable to me. Is it time for a change? Going back to discuss the family, it is quit possible and in some circumstances; better to raise a child solely by one parent but with the balance of both mother and father  but is strong and make logical sense.  In some situations I guess it would be better to use these ideas separately but put them together and they seem to build a strong balance with out going over the deep end.   ...