ke is who they are, but it is not it is a mere “surface… not directly related to any true deep definition of the self”(Grealy 84). It is not appearance that should get you the job it should be your qualifications. How can people be so judgmental when “the chemistries of … our bodies are similar enough”(205) notes Diana Kappel Smith, a natural historian. It is who we are, what we are capable of, and how we treat others should be how we are judge; it is sad that is not how it works out it seems that the people who look pleasing to the eye have things easier than those who are not. So next time someone walks into the room remember what Joyce Carol Oates, one of America most distinguished authors, states “that all things might be other than they are”(225). People it seems are “misleading themselves and being overly occupied with the ‘mere surface’ of living”(Grealy 79)....