t most likely you'll get it. 8. That you can't change the length of your calves, the width of your hips or the nature of your parents. 9. That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it's over. 10. What you would and wouldn't do for love or money. 11. How to live alone, even if you don't like it.12. Who you can trust, who you can't, and why you shouldn't take it personally. 13. Where to go - be it your best friend's kitchen table or a charming inn hidden in the woods-when your soul needs soothing. 14. What you can and can't accomplish in a day, a month, and a year. 15. Why they say life begins at 30. ...