another without fearing the loss of ones own identity. Keeping in mind that, to some degree, each of these stages builds on the successful resolution of the crises of the prior stages, its logical that Dave exhibited difficulty entering and maintaining intimate relationships. As stated in our text, Some people are so busy seeking or maintaining their identity that they cannot share and express themselves in an intimate relationship (Zastrow, 1997, p. 310). Considering the likelihood of role confusion and perception of self issues in Daves life left over from adolescence, its no surprise that his first marriage was a disaster. I find it fascinating that he has such a seemingly solid relationship with his (second) wife and son.Eriksons seventh stage of psychosocial development addresses the conflict of Generativity versus Stagnation in mature adulthood. (The eighth stage, Ego Integrity versus Despair, is not covered in this paper because it addresses old age.) The achievement of generativity implies an unselfish attitude that looks beyond oneself and toward an enhancement of society. From volunteerism to church activities to contributions of global significance, generativity is crucial to the growth and survival of society. Daves behavior is most certainly different than this stage of Eriksons theory predicts. Daves life as a mature adult is committed to the betterment of society. He travels throughout the country as an inspirational and motivational speaker. Though our text for this course explicitly states that becoming a parent does not guarantee generativity, Daves son seems to be the focus of this passion to make the world a better place. He is also very determined to not repeat the mistakes of his own parents.By all accounts, Dave Pelzer should not have achieved generativity. His continued lack of self-esteem combined with the other issues addressed in this paper would indicate a predisposition to depression, pessimism and an unwil...
