or suggests a cultural shift from rewarding kindness and self-restraint to applauding a more open expression of hospitality through rudeness. Perhapes there is a lessening of concern over being respectable, along with an increased vigilance oto make sure one is respected.Concludeing that Civility must beging with the individual person making small sacraficiesfor others. Many small sacrificies can make a large differnce in some cases. People in contemporaty socialty are in a hurry and they find them selfs deindividualized , or somwhat anonymous, particialry in large metropolitain area's such as NewYork/LA/Atlanta. Both factors may well contribute to our inclination to be abrupt and even rude with one another. respect means to look at, perhapes we all need to slow down and look at one another....
