17;t always happen as frequently. Your probably wondering, what happens at stage 4 with a person. Well being thatthis essay is on relationships, its about taking your relationship with a person to a greaterdegree. Stage 4 is when you start to develop an interest in a person but as more thenfriends, the term often used is “liking” someone. You find yourself growing attached tothat person. You become infatuated (your heart beats fast, you turn pale, you becomespeechless...etc.) with that person and it can last from a couple minutes to months toyears. You find yourself attracting to that person, possibly because of their looks, the waythey think/act around you or their personality (*--our good friend).Stage 4 is about becoming interested in someone, Stage 5 is actually knowing thatyou are interested in a person and wanted to know if the feeling is mutual. To derive thisinformation we use a variety of methods. One method might be just coming out andsaying to that person how you feel towards them, this method may be the quickest way toknow but it is also the riskiest because the results can hurt you. The may not feel thesame way towards you and you’ll feel shot down and this can create friction in yourfriendship. So most of the time we resort to other methods like flirting with that person,seeing if they flirt back (dropping hints), maybe asking a friend to ask that person howthey feel towards you (this usually is a bad/good idea from expierence, it can createfriction because that person might want to hear it from you instead and get angry but italso might pan out because that person you “like” might not of known you felt that wayand feel the same towards you), another method might be writing how you feel to thatperson instead of saying it such as in a letter or an e-mail. There are other methods ofletting that person know how you feel but those are the most common I have seen.Basically whatever method you may d...
