t mix (if they did that would be pretty gross).You can’t spend a lot of time and fall in “love” with someone if you absolutely hate thethings they do, have a far different perspective about things/life, a total differentpersonality (yes that word)...etc. You just won’t work. And that’s a basic reason to notworking out with someone whom you like/d. Another thing that can cause a “break up” isbecoming bored with a person, sharing too much with them and not having anymore“fun”, so to speak. Things becoming too repetitive can cause one person to seek newopportunities which in a sense could lead to cheating on them. Cheating is a big no no ina relationship. It can instantly destroy a relationship by creating a loss of trust, faith andhonesty and those 3 characteristics are an important part of a relationship. As the sayinggoes “Once a cheater, always a cheater”. And this will give you a bad rap not to mentionyou’ll most likely be by yourself and you’ dont want either. Now don’t get me wrong buttheir are numerous more reasons that cause a relationship to fail (Probably could write anessay just on that), I was just touching upon the tip of the iceberg and am moving on.Okay, it’s over, you 2 are done with, now what? Well depending on the degree ofyour break-up you may still want to or don’t want to have a relationship with this person,but a stage 3 relationship, friends we’re talking about. Let’s say you do decide to becomefriends again and let things go back to normal. Well, things becoming normal will takequite sometime and healing. Don’t rush it. Let it grow back naturally. You can’t forcethings back into their place after you have just had them scrambled. A good friend ofmine told me that “if you are good enough friends to go out, then you are good enoughfriends to last after the relationship.” I believe this i...
