hate each other, they justdo not mix. Friends also play a part in a person’s developing an identity, they are also a goodindicator of one’s identity. Whether you hang around wall street all day or you work on your farmall day, may tell a little about your identity. Neither is better than the other but they probably havedifferent interests and likes. That does not mean they can not be friends and get along, they willjust be different.However with all these factors related to forming an identity the most importantand most influential is the person themselves. We see people every day, some whom we want tobe like and some we hope we never turn out like. With all the other outside factors to guide andhelp or push and hamper, the individual has the last say. You are the only on who says what youwant to be like over the course of your life. Nobody will ever get inside your mind and do thethinking for you. Nobody can influence you, you may feel as if you are being forced to dosomething but you do not have to do anything. You make the final decision. However you act,think, and speak is totally up to you. People grow up all coming from all different kinds of places, backgrounds and families.They will all have different identities. Gender affects the decisions made by people. Their identityand the ‘nature’ of the person makes them act the way they do. Nobody is the same and nobodywill ever be. All the outside influences will have an effect on their identities but the individual hasthe last word on it. Nobody is the same because each person will form his own identity to whatever they want to be like. ...
