noon walk, plays some checkers, or engages in other leisure activities. It is traditional to have a third meal before Shabbat is over. This is usually a light meal in the late afternoon. Shabbat ends at nightfall, when three stars are visible, approximately forty minutes after sunset. At the conclusion of Shabbat, the family performs a concluding ritual called Havdalah. Blessings are recited over wine, spices and candles. Then a blessing is recited regarding the division between the sacred and the secular, between Shabbat and the working days.These two religions have been practiced in my house since I was born. How do I choose which to be a part of? My mother has not been present in my life since I was two years old, so the family I know wants me to be Jewish. I feel separated, between this choice. What if I don’t want to be a part of either religion? I want to explore what else is out there, and make a decision on my own. I think because I practiced both religions, this had made me a very open-minded person. I see things from every angle, instead of just one. I accept everyone for who they are, and not for what they are, or what they practice. Since most of my family has shown me patience with this vital choice; I have also learned how to be patient with important decisions that have to be made. How do I make such a life altering decision? As my parents have showed me patience, I will wait. Even though I have to make a decision one day, the knowledge I have gained from this will be with me until the day I die. ...
