have any self-confidence? This is just another example of the tension that can build up between a mother and daughter.Although these three examples are sad and unfortunate for the daughters, the relationship between Chinese mothers and daughters have been improving. Generations ago, Chinese mothers were very controlling and dominating. The daughters had no control of their own life. They were told who to marry, what to eat, and how to live. Fortunately, each generation gains a better mother-daughter relationship. Nowadays, Chinese mothers give their daughters many freedoms. They don't place expectations. However there still exists tension in many relationships, however "tension" can be dealt with more easily than previous generations. All cultures need to work on accepting their children, to help avoid tension....