s and it is calculated.There are many other ways in which people will be disappointed in knowing that just by following the steps to life long love that you will not get it. It is therefore important to consider all other ways in ones quest for life long love and not to take the steps to a life long love at face value. It will be prudent to put the steps into context and apply them in the best way that you see fit in your relationship while also considering other things that are necessary in building relationships like forgiving when wronged, exercising good problem solving skills and concern for the other person. Love is not selfish and will focus on the interests of the other person and so it will not be focused on what one wants from a relationship, that is life long love but it will be focused on what the other person wants. These and other ingredients are necessary to consider when one want to find life long love....