8217;t leave; but he promises not to enter the house. Arnold retaliates to the threat of Connie calling the police by stating , “Soon as you touch that phone I don’t need to keep my promise and will come inside. You won’t want that.”(588: 117) By this statement Arnold is saying that he will enter not only her house, but into her life and take away her innocence. Arnold knows all about Connie and her life, probably more than Connie knows herself. Arnold tries to tell Connie that everything she is doing is for him; “You washed your hair for me”(589: 124). Arnold is trying to convince Connie that she looks nice for him. Arnold convinces Connie that she does everything for him. He enters the house and enters Connie’s world. Arnold takes away Connie’s innocence and all that she has. Although Connie lives in a dream world, she is innocent in her lifestyle. She never did anything that would be considered harmful to herself or to others. Connie is left with an unknowing sense around her, “I’m not going to see my mother again. She thought, I’m not going to sleep in my own bed again”(590: 151). Connie knew her world had come crashing down, her fantasy world was over. There’s now nothing left for Connie to recognize and be familiar with. Nothing would be the same for Connie anymore; she had no more security. Connie is now being forced into a third lifestyle, a life of reality. All her teenage pop culture desires have turned into non-existence. Connie is forced to grow up in an instant. Arnold Friend leaves her with a life she cannot begin to understand. She rushed to grow up and now she is.“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” shows how life can be destroyed by not living it as a person should. Connie wanted lots of attention. She never experienced reality, constantly living in a fantasy world. She based her life on looks, musi...
