the tone of the conversation when he puts his emotions out there and he says to Savon These women are killing me slowly. It wouldnt be so bad if I didnt think she is the one. Savon nearly chokes when he says that. Savon remembers an earlier comment about Darius and Nina just kickin it, and what asked happened to that. There is an implied understanding that Savon realizes there is more to the relationship than what Darius actually comes out and says.Another characteristic that Inman believes characterizes mens friendships is just that implied understanding that Savon and Darius have. There is no need to belabor the point when you know that there is more to the subject. He also things that the openness and trust [in mens friendships] establish an environment that supports individual growth. Because Savon did not make fun of Darius about being open emotionally to this woman a link in their friendship was gained. They are able to help each other learn about their individual selves. One more of Inmans characteristics is in this scene. Once Darius realizes that Savon is about to choke because he called Nina THE ONE, Darius flips in to joke mode and was saying that he was just kidding and goes back to the hard role. So Savon, not really believing that he was joking says to Darius Let me see ya wallet, because it must be BAD MUTHA FUCKER on it. Inman says phrases, jokes and gestures that carry subtle meanings of acceptance and understanding and significant expressions of affection. Savon uses this comment to make Darius think he believes him and to help stroke his ego. Inman would say that comment has value for the strength of their friendship. It is in some ways an affirmation of the relationship.I think it is important to note that after some dramatic scene with Nina and Darius, the following scene is with Darius and Savon discussing what has happened. First, the scene when they are playing pool after he first has sex with Nina and then...
