d as lazyness, surfing in internet is waste of time. Elders must adapt themselves to todays life standards & must show tolerance to our behaviors & our life styles. If they will try to understand they will recognise that they have some things to be learned from us. Instead of keeping their conservative nature as it is, if they will allow themselves free from their stringent ideas or thoughts they will feel more happy & will become more friendly & sympathic to us. They may learn new tastes new pleasures & enjoy themselves. We together may share the life together which they will be more happy.If they will gain our thrust, we may speak with them openly & tell the things that we made wrong & our faults which have the risk to be understood in the wrong way. But if they use these spoken things in arguments with them instead of keeping them as secret then we loose our thrust to our family members. If they will show understanding as a close friend or a brother to the faults & mistakes which we told them then they will have the chance of keeping the control of us from far away which is to our benefit as far as to their benefit. By this way we may have the chance not to repeat our faults & to be on the safe side. Otherwise they will have no chance of learning our wrong sides & to correct them. If we loose our thrust to each other & cannot speak with our parents then we try to find friends whom we can share our secrets. Loosening the close relation has the risk of doing big mistakes which cannot be compensated. In fact we do not want to understand our elders & on the other hand some of our elders sincerely do not want to understand us. The second part of the idea may be seemed wrong & difficult to accept this confusing idea at first glance. Some fathers & mothers are so busy that they have no time to spend with their childs. Are you accepting that this is true. It depends on the choices of our parents. If they really want they may...
