e same problem. Some friends are very lucky that they may have well educated & well prepared families who have very good communication & understanding with their elders. As tried to be explained above with only some details there are a lot more different subjects which we are different from our parents covering in every detail of our life. We are different from our elders. This truth must be accepted by our elders sincerely & they must not try to force us to behave as similar to them. We have different ideas, different characters & we are not a copy of our elders. We have to build up good relations with them...