There  are  a  lot  of  specific  cultural  values  that  have  been  taught  to  women  by  society  since  birth.     The  three  essays,  I  Want  a  Wife  by  Judy  Syfers,   How  the  Superwoman  Myth  Puts  Women  Down  by  Sylvia  Rabiner,  and  An  Open  Window  On  My  Private  World  by  Jane  Elizabeth  Lemke  are  all  written  by  women  who  share  their  experiences  with  us.   The  three  essays  explore  the  value  of  self,  power,  control,  and  life.   First  of  all,  in  the  essay,  I  Want  a  Wife,  Judy  Syfers  exposes  the  meaning  of  wife  presently  in  our  society.   Her  argument  is  based  on  the  premise  that  all  wives  are  completely  devoted  to  their  husbands  and  are  willing  to  tend  to  all  their  needs  and  satisfy  them  completely  while  working,  being  a  good  mother,  and  remaining  gorgeous.   Syfers  reveals  her  definition  of  a  wife  in  a  very  sarcastic  and  frustrated  manner.   Also,  the  style  of  the  whole  paper  is  very  ironic.   Almost  as  if  she  is  screaming,  she  concludes  her  essay  with,  My  God,  who  wouldnt  want  a  wife?(pg.648, 11).   The  cultural  values  portrayed  in  this  essay  are  the  value  of  control  and  the  value  of  wanting  to  be  loved.   The  value  of  control  is  portrayed  in  our  society  by  the  husband  having  the  control  and  power  over  his  wife.   Because  of  that  control,  the  wife  is  forced  to  do  all  of  these  unrealistic  tasks  forced  on  her  by  society.   The  woman  fears  that  if  she  is  not  compliant  or  unable  to  perform  her  duty  as  a  wife,  her  husband  will  find  another  wife  who  will.   The  value  of  wanting  to  be  loved  also  represents  how  the  woman  performs  all  of  these  tasks  for  love.In  addition,  the  essay  How  the  Superwoman  Myth  Puts  Women  Down  by  Sylvia  Rabiner  also  discusses  the  cultural  values  forced  on  he...