r  as  a  woman.   She  writes  about  the  superwoman  that  our  society  expects  women  to  be  that  have  brains,  brawn,  children,  husband,  career,  fame,  respect,  and  money.   Rabiner  discusses  the  difference  of  the  perfect  women  in  the  old  days  and  the  perfect  women  now.   The  expectations  in  society  have  become  greater  since  the  old  days.   It  is  ironic  that  feminism,  finally  respectable,  has  been  made  to  backfire  in  this  way.(pg. 658, 12).   Even  though  there  might  be  a  few  women  who  have  and  are  able  to  do everything,  most  women  and  men  dont  lead  perfect  lives.   Rabiner  explains  how  the  media  uses  the  superwoman  image  to  intimidate  the  average  woman:The  superwoman  image  ignores  the  reality  of  the  average  working  woman  or  housewife.  It  elevates  an  elite  of  upper-class  women  executives.   The     media  loves  it  because  it  is  glamorous  and  false.   In  the  end  it  threatens  nothing  in  the  system.   In  fact,  all  it  does  is  give  women  like  me  a  sense  of  inferiority.(pg.658-659)Rabiner values  in  this  essay  herself  and  education.   She  values  education  because  she  believes  that  it  brings  a  person  success  in  life.   Her  value  of  self  is  shown  through  the  points  she  makes  about  how  she  tries  to  be  the  perfect  mother,  work  and  educate  herself.   Her  style  of  writing  is  very  explanatory  although  she  is  angry  at  society  and  media  for  trying  to  portray  a  superwoman  as  a  real  person.The  final  essay,  An  Open  Window  On  My  Private  World  by  Jane  Elizabeth  Lemke  is  about  her  experience  living  in  a  small  cottage  on  one  of  the  gulf  islands  off  the  coast  of  British  Columbia.   She  describes  her  usual  day  on  this  remote  island  and  how  much  she  loves  it.   Lemkes  writing  style  is  content  and  peaceful.   ...