Because  she  doesnt  have  a  lot  of  worries  or  obligations  to  anyone  or  about  things  like  working,  she  is  truly  happy  and  values  life.   And  thus  ended  another  of  my  days - here  at  the  beach,  living  in  the  country(pg.401, 20).The  two  essays,  I  Want  a  Wife  and  How  the  Superwoman  Myth  Puts  Women  Down  are  very  similar  because  they  are  both  true  stories  that  are  written  about  how  a  womens  role  is  ridiculous  in  present  times.   The  two  authors  both  are  angry  at  society  for  placing  this  huge  expectation  on  women.   The  essay,  An  Open  Window  On  My  Private  World,  however,  is  written  about  a  woman  who  doesnt  value  society  and  who  isnt  controlled  by  a  man.   She  is  happy  in  life  because  she  is  who  she  wants  to  be  and  not  someone  who  society  or  a  man  wants  her  to  be.   Unlike  the  other  women,  Lemke  is  independent  and  relies  solely  on  her  beliefs  of  what  is  right.   Also,  she  is  not  married  because  she  has  different  views  on  men  wants  to  be  independent.   Most  men,  I  replied,  are  looking  for  Princess  Charming,  wanting  women  who  will  let  them  do  everything.(pg.399-400, 11).Finally,  the  three  essays  all  display  how  these  ladies  have  been  influenced,  either  positively  or  negatively  and  the  values  they  have  acquired  through  life.   Although  society  plays  a  great  role  in  life,  it  shouldnt  influence  a  persons  cultural  values.   As  long  as  a  person  is  content  with  themselves  and  their  life,  everything  else  doesnt  matter.   There  should  be  more  women  like  Lemke  to  take  life  into  their  own  hands  and  to  take  care  of  themselves....