th thier parents,which at times parents may find inappropriate. This ties into the third reason which is anethical consideration parents are forced to make as to at what point thier children aregrown and no longer can be looked down upon in an authoritative manner. Althoughmany parents try to smooth things over with thier children when they come home forbreaks just to find over summer that they have been in denial, most parent realize quicklythat they are losing thier children to thier own individualities. If i write this paper for onepurpose let with the purpose of illustrating to you, our parents, what we need as yourchildren in order to become competent adults.Many of you parents will take on the responsibility of weighing out the ethicalparental role and where it should cease, vs. the natural role. In all of the animal kingdom,mothers raise thier young to have survival, and social skills, once that teaching iscompleted they are done parenting. In humans however, this line is very broad leavingsome forty-year olds with mothers and some twelve year olds without. This is a hugediscrepancy and expert Gine Richardson says This phenomenon in premature withdrawfrom parental responsibilities is as detrimental to a young adults development as parentswho do not know when to let go. This decision, as to when the parenting should movefrom a childs complete dependence to individuality, should be made at High School ageand taper off by the first year completed in college. The transition from childhood toadulthood proves to trigger many conflicts in parent child relationships, and this should bemade easier by parents. By realizing that you are still the parent, and will always be, itshould be easier to let your child transition into this next stage towards independence. It isnecessary to be understanding of your childs needs and recognize that they have livedindependently from you in many ways, and they are doing well. The diversity between thet...
