s was not a phase, and that I was a homosexual. I told my friends first, and everyone I told was supportive. Many of my friends believe that homosexuality is a sin, but they are still supportive. I am understanding of their beliefs just as they are of mine. I wasn’t sure how my parents would react because we never really discussed homosexuality in our house. They were fine with it, and I think it has brought us closer together. When I told them I was gay, they said “we still love you, Tony. You’re the same kid we’ve known for seventeen years, we just know more about you now.” My only Beck 10wish is that all parents would be as understanding as mine were if one of their children comes out of the closet. I did not chose my sexuality, but my choice to act on it was due to the accepting environment I live in. Homosexuality is genetically based, but acting upon those tendencies is an individual choice. That choice can be influenced by environment, upbringing, education or lack there of, and religion. Society is slowly becoming more understanding and tolerant of gays and lesbians, but until the day people stop assuming everyone they meet is heterosexual unless told otherwise, I feel as if it is my duty to educate and make people aware of this topic. The more people know about it, the less afraid of it they will be....
