s.With time, the person suffering with schizophrenia may shows signs of being able to handle more responsibility. Although it should always be kept in mind the above ideas for reducing stress, families have compiled other suggestions for the times after the initial period of adjustment. Discuss with your relative how he or she feels about doing more things. Begin with mastery of self-care tasks- personal hygiene, getting dressed, eating scheduled meals. Page 12 Assign household responsibilities that are within your relative's abilities. Watch to see if your relative prefers to work alone or with others. For example, he or she may like to wash dishes, but not be able to handle the "help" of someone else drying. Encourage, but never push, people to be part of social gatherings if appreciate. One or two relatives or friends might come over for dinner may be manageable, whereas and all-day gathering of the family- for example, a wedding- may cause frustration. Discuss plans with your relative for an outing once a week. A drive and a walk in the country may be fun, whereas as trip to the city may be too noisy and tension filled. If the person enjoys coffee and doughnuts, plan a break around going to the donut shop, rather than a restaurant where there may be more of a formal atmosphere. Do not be too inquisitive. Do not always ask, "What are you thinking about? Why are you doing that?" Talk simply about outside events. " Did you hear about the new movie starring" Understand that although it may be very difficult for the person to have a conversation, he or she may enjoy company in other ways. Consider watching television, listening to music, or playing cards. Talk about childhood events. The person may appreciate being read to also. Avoid constant, petty criticism. Identify the major behaviors and learn to deal with them in an honest, direct manner. For example, in many families, the lack of personal hygiene is a source of ...
