great irritation. But saying things like, "Whey Page 13can't you wash?" Or " You smell awful, " does not seem to have much affect of solving the problem. Be forgetful. Say something like; "I forgot the milk. Can you get it please'?" Encourage the person to take responsibility. Teach the person how to deal with stress in a socially acceptable manner. Remember that family members are often the only friends the person may have. So try to be a friend. (http://www.mentalhealth.com/book/p40-sc01.html), Schizophrenia: A Handbook For Families.With time, the person suffering will begin to feel more confident and secure about Being able to do things. Some health care professionals have noted that it is around the period that new problems can emerge, particularly if the family isn't prepared to grow with the person. The process of becoming independent in long but standing by the side of a person with schizophrenia and giving them love and support seems to be the only "true" cure. ...